The Antagonist and the Comrade.

Everyone needs connection with other people and that's what we called "socialization". When we socialize we tend to make friends, and by having friends, we share moments, memories and experiences with them and show who really we are, and this makes a good connection. But not all that we socialize with can work out a good bond, some can lead to incompatibility that no matter how hard we try to adjust with them, it can’t really work out and it will most likely appear that the both of you are opposing forces by which he/she is the antagonist of your life and you’re the comrade. Sounds like a typical story in the movie wherein there is a person who’ll ruin your whole life, wherein his/her happiness is to make your life so miserable. NOOOO! SO FREAKING BAD!  SO CRUEL!  There are times that you want to runaway but you can’t, because you already have a connection with him/her and the worst part is, he/she is already a part of your life. SO AWFUL!  There are also times that you want to slap them in their faces and punch them so hard by being so annoyed of the way they treat you, but you can’t because your conscience tells you that it’s not the right thing to do and you should not waste your time struggle against those kind of tactless, inconsiderate, uncaring, unsympathetic, insensitive, nasty, obnoxious people, instead just focus on yourself on how you make up your own life despite of the miserable life brought by the antagonist of your life. It’s just sad to think that as a comrade you can’t defend yourself completely from that bad wicked antagonist because there will be consequences and there are things that you consider: FIRST, if you struggle against him/her it can cause you to a more chaotic life, so it is much better to calm down and just ignore whatever he/she says and do. SECOND, He/she will not stop to ruin your life and it will be worst than ever. So, for the betterment of everything, all we have to do is: FIRST, Pray, ask for God’s guidance to help you overcome the unpleasant feelings. SECOND, put everything on a calm approach. THIRD, Just ignore and try not to be affected with what he/she says and do. FOURTH, Don’t involve yourself in the bad vibes that he/she possessed. We just have to accept the fact that the antagonists exist in our lives for some reasons that God used the good ones as an instrument to eliminate their wickedness and transform them to a good one.

Let them do whatever they want to do, what important is, you prove to yourself as well as to that wicked antagonist that despite of  the miserable life that he/she gave you, you never give up and you possessed this good heart that he/she don’t have. And at the end, who’ll succeed? Of course the good one, the comrade in the story who showed the goodness of her heart and not the bad wicked one who has nothing to do but to ruin someone’s life and showed a horrible attitude. He/she may be the winner at the beginning but the loser at the end!