The Antagonist and the Comrade.

Everyone needs connection with other people and that's what we called "socialization". When we socialize we tend to make friends, and by having friends, we share moments, memories and experiences with them and show who really we are, and this makes a good connection. But not all that we socialize with can work out a good bond, some can lead to incompatibility that no matter how hard we try to adjust with them, it can’t really work out and it will most likely appear that the both of you are opposing forces by which he/she is the antagonist of your life and you’re the comrade. Sounds like a typical story in the movie wherein there is a person who’ll ruin your whole life, wherein his/her happiness is to make your life so miserable. NOOOO! SO FREAKING BAD!  SO CRUEL!  There are times that you want to runaway but you can’t, because you already have a connection with him/her and the worst part is, he/she is already a part of your life. SO AWFUL!  There are also times that you want to slap them in their faces and punch them so hard by being so annoyed of the way they treat you, but you can’t because your conscience tells you that it’s not the right thing to do and you should not waste your time struggle against those kind of tactless, inconsiderate, uncaring, unsympathetic, insensitive, nasty, obnoxious people, instead just focus on yourself on how you make up your own life despite of the miserable life brought by the antagonist of your life. It’s just sad to think that as a comrade you can’t defend yourself completely from that bad wicked antagonist because there will be consequences and there are things that you consider: FIRST, if you struggle against him/her it can cause you to a more chaotic life, so it is much better to calm down and just ignore whatever he/she says and do. SECOND, He/she will not stop to ruin your life and it will be worst than ever. So, for the betterment of everything, all we have to do is: FIRST, Pray, ask for God’s guidance to help you overcome the unpleasant feelings. SECOND, put everything on a calm approach. THIRD, Just ignore and try not to be affected with what he/she says and do. FOURTH, Don’t involve yourself in the bad vibes that he/she possessed. We just have to accept the fact that the antagonists exist in our lives for some reasons that God used the good ones as an instrument to eliminate their wickedness and transform them to a good one.

Let them do whatever they want to do, what important is, you prove to yourself as well as to that wicked antagonist that despite of  the miserable life that he/she gave you, you never give up and you possessed this good heart that he/she don’t have. And at the end, who’ll succeed? Of course the good one, the comrade in the story who showed the goodness of her heart and not the bad wicked one who has nothing to do but to ruin someone’s life and showed a horrible attitude. He/she may be the winner at the beginning but the loser at the end!

Explore, Experience and Learn.

 As we grew up we matured physically, mentally, emotionally and we learn a lot of significant things from our experience and exploration, but those are just a key we are the only ones who can nurture ourselves.  Those matters tend to bring us through developing our personality in terms of coping with the environment we used to have as well as initiating a good relationship with the folks we knew and those we will encounter in the future. In 18 years of my existence I can say that my experiences are not yet sufficient in dealing with the mysterious side of humankind and ironic aspect of reality. As a teenager with a curious characteristic, I may not be matured enough to cope up with things surrounding me like depression, so much stress, confusion and personal decisions. I think that there’s a missing puzzle that I should find out to deal with it completely. That’s why I tend to explore new things for me to gain more experiences and learn from it.

Stop, Let go and Take action

LOVE? a simple and very familiar word but complex in meaning. All of us experienced to love and to be loved. It is a special feeling that we share not only with someone special but to family, friends and everyone.
But why is it a big deal and why some of us becomes sensitive or emotional when it comes to conversations regarding love? Those are some of the simple questions about love that we cannot answer. Because when we're talking about this matter, we only based on our very own feelings and emotions which are subjective cues that we are the only ones who can feel. And those are unexplainable which cannot be reasoned out by why I feel this way? or why I chose this person?
Each and everyone of us has our very own experiences when it comes to love. It started when we found that someone who may not meet our standards but yet stolen our heart and fill the missing piece of our life. By this, we'll experience feeling of being inspired, being delightful each day even how tough our life is, being thankful for having a wonderful life despite of the circumstances that we encountered and sometimes being hurt, having so much heartaches and trying to forget. We may differ in terms of experiences but we can all relate with each others emotions.


When I watched this video entitled "Traffic light Sad-Love-Pain", I was really touched by the message and realizations come up to my mind. All I can say is woah! this video is so nice, a heartwarming one. It touches the hearts of those who watched it and I'am one of those.
According to the video, "Love is like a traffic light, there are three colors which becomes a guide for us to know when to stop, to let go and to take action."

STOP- Loving someone so much doesn't always mean they're the right one for us.
LETTING GO- Letting go doesn't mean giving up, but rather accepting that there are things that are not meant to be.
TAKE ACTION- While someone breaks your heart, there will be someone else to fix it.

Reflect.